How much does a wedding gift usually cost? Analysis of hot topics on the Internet in the past 10 days
Recently, discussions about wedding gifts have once again become a hot topic on social media. As an important part of traditional Chinese wedding customs, bride price, its amount standards, regional differences and social impact have attracted widespread attention. This article combines the hot discussions on the entire Internet in the past 10 days to provide you with a structured analysis of the current status of betrothal gifts.
1. Comparison of the amount of betrothal gifts in various regions across the country
| area | Average amount of betrothal gift (10,000 yuan) | Common additional requirements |
|---|---|---|
| Jiangxi | 18.8-38.8 | House+car+three gold |
| Fujian | 28.8-58.8 | Luxury house + luxury car |
| Zhejiang | 15.8-28.8 | Decoration + Home Appliances |
| Henan | 6.6-12.8 | Furniture + banquet |
| Guangdong | 3.8-8.8 | Gift money return part |
2. Analysis of the hot discussion focus on bride price
1.The phenomenon of sky-high betrothal gifts: Although the "18.88 million sky-high price of betrothal gift" incident in a certain place in Jiangxi was confirmed to be a rumor, it triggered an in-depth discussion on the phenomenon of comparison of betrothal gifts.
2.Changing attitudes among young people: The survey shows that 68% of the post-95s respondents believe that betrothal gifts should be given within their means and oppose the over-commercialization of betrothal gifts.
3.Legal policy impact: Many places have issued "height limit orders". For example, Henan stipulates that bride price must not exceed 60,000 yuan, but the implementation effect has caused controversy.
3. Factors affecting the amount of bride price
| Influencing factors | Specific performance | degree of influence |
|---|---|---|
| regional economy | Developed areas usually have higher | ★★★★ |
| family conditions | Financial strength of both families | ★★★ |
| Academic qualifications and careers | Highly educated people have higher requirements | ★★ |
| traditional ideas | Rural areas pay more attention to | ★★★★ |
4. Suggestions on settlement of bride price disputes
1.consensus: Both families should fully communicate and determine a reasonable amount based on the actual situation.
2.dowry balance: The practice of "dowry return" in some areas deserves to be promoted to realize reciprocity of courtesy.
3.New wedding customs: Try the "zero betrothal gift" or "symbolic betrothal gift" model to emphasize the emotional foundation.
5. Selections hotly discussed by netizens
1. "The bride price should be for two families to help a new family, not for one family to help another family to alleviate poverty." - Weibo user @Marriage Observer
2. "When we got married, we only received a gift of 30,000 yuan, and all of it was used for the decoration of our new house. Now we are very happy." - Douyin user @福小couple
3. "Behind the high betrothal gift is the continuation of the idea of preferring boys over girls. This concept should be completely changed." - Zhihu's top answer
In summary, the amount of wedding gifts varies greatly, ranging from tens of thousands to millions of yuan. Viewing betrothal gifts rationally and returning to the essence of marriage are the fundamental ways to resolve disputes. What are your thoughts on wedding gifts? Feel free to share your views in the comment section.
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